If one can transition to from male to female via a "risky" surgical operation, why can't this same person go thru a psychological treatment (or therapy) to accept their current physical gender? Seems like the vast amount of time and effort that is used for a physical surgery and hormone therapy could be also be used for a far less risky mental treatment and therapy to help that person accept their original physical gender. In other words, the amount of time and effort to switch a physical gender could be easily be used to help that same person accept their original gender.
TRANSGENDER SURGERY = LGBTQ HYPOCRISY
How can the LGBTQ community advocate for an extremely risky physical surgery, hormone treatment and mental therapy for a transgender, but then turn around and say that Gay to Straight therapy is bad and doesn't work?
Transgenders surgery still results in many suicides and a number of new health problems. Hence, if that extremely risky surgery is OK with the LGBTQ community, why can't a transgender have mental therapy to accept and adapt to their original gender, and likewise, gays have mental therapy to go straight?
OLIVE BRANCH - POSSIBLE WORKAROUND FOR LGBTQ COMMUNITY?
Instead of thinking of a code names for Sodomy or ways to hook up, maybe the LGBTQ community can list visual triggers of their attractiveness to the opposite sex and build upon that in produce a Christian Dating site for LGBTQ's. If the LGBTQ's of the 1950's were able to deal effectively with their dangerous temptations, get married to the opposite sex, and raise wonderful and successful children back then, then the LGBTQ community can do so in Todays' society.
POSSIBLE LGBTQ MATCH EXAMPLES:
1. Effeminate "Flaming" Gay Male + Butch Lesbian Female (Strong Polar Opposites Attractions?)
2. Closet Gay Male + Lipstick Lesbian or Soft Stud Lesbian Female (Weak Polar Opposite Attractions?)
3. Bi-(Lean Toward Gay) Male + Bi-(Lean Toward Lesbian) Female
4. Trans Male + Trans Female
5 Queer Male + Queer Female
POSSIBLE MATCH RULE #1: OPPOSITE ATTRACTS
A "sexually polar opposite" person could be match for the same "sexually opposite", e.g.
POSSIBLE MATCH RULE #2: SOMETIMES OPPOSITE, LOOKING FOR SAMENESS
Yet, in regards to "not so gay" a person is, the more they could be a match for something similar in a less butch type of lesbian female. In other words, since these types are already internally opposite sexually, they need somone who is the same "internally opposite sex" attraction.
As for Bi's, Trans and Queers, Bi's Males could match with other Bi-Females, Trans Males with other Trans Females and Queer Males with other Queer Females.